So much to add.....

Wow, being a mother of 2 has really cut into my time to blog.  I apologize for the lack of posts. 

Hannah has cleared all her doctor appointments with flying colors.  She's become a very happy, active little baby girl.  You'd never know based off what you see, that she had a rough start.  She baby babbles a lot and laughs at big brother. She is almost walking, but still just cruises a lot around the living room. Hannah loves her baby doll, and will rock it while holding it near her chin.  She loves her Minnie Mouse car that plays music!!  She turned 1 on January 20th.  It's hard to believe it's already been a year since she was born and almost a year since our lives changed and we became her parents. 

Update on the adoption process after chatting with the SW last week.  So far, Parental Rights of the biological mom and the (alleged) biological dad have been terminated.  We will only have 1 more FINAL visitation with BM.  An appeal was filed (which is common) so we have to wait for that court hearing to make a ruling.  Unfortunately due to the cuts in government services, there's only a couple juvenile judges, so the hearings are a bit behind.  We are hopeful of finalizing in Spring of 2015.  We are finding a lot of similarities to our first adoption.  It helps to have the same SW, whom we have a great relationship with.  She makes this long process, a little easier.  We are thankful for her!!

Thomas is thriving in school and enjoying art projects.  We increased his days from 2 to 3 so he gets a little more exposure to school.  When we move to Descanso (hopefully by Spring) I will homeschool full time.  He's smarter than most 5 year olds, so we  joke and say we have the next Doogie Howser.....LOL

  

Christmas 2013

 

 

 

Hard to believe another year has come and gone.  This year was very eventful for us.  We have seen firsthand how God answers prayers.

In February we received a phone call from our Social Worker regarding a newborn baby (well 2 weeks old) that needed a foster home.  It was also revealed that she was a foster/adopt child and that is why we were a match.  They were placing her with us, knowing that we could adopt her, too!!!  We have chosen to name her Hannah Lynn.  So thankful that this happened during Jim’s slow months and he was allowed to take time off and be home as we all settled in with the new adjustment of having a newborn baby in the house. It was an adjustment for me to be a stay-at-home-Mom of two while he was gone on fires.  Thomas is such a great helper and he loves being the BIG brother!!  I know it was an adjustment for Jim, too. 

Fire season was an average season with Jim traveling mostly in California to fires, and one fire assignment in Idaho.  Although this season was average it was also a tragic one.  The loss of 19 Granite Mountain Hotshots on the Yarnell fire in Arizona, hit pretty close to home, with Jim being a Hotshot Superintendent.  The other thing that made this fatality hit close to home was the discovery and use of a Hotshots Prayer that I wrote 11 years ago.  I had posted it back in 2007 on my Wildland Firefighter Wives blog and was tearful when I heard the Mayor of Prescott Arizona read the prayer on TV.  My prayer had become known and read on local and national TV, posted on websites, published in newspaper articles and even read by the lone survivor at the memorial for the 19 Hotshots. I was so honored that a prayer written from my heart over a decade ago had a huge impact on people’s lives during their time of grieving. Jim was selected to do an interview with Ann Curry (Dateline NBC) in regards to Wildland fires and climate change.  While talking with the producers, they discovered that I wrote the Hotshot Prayer.  Ann wanted to interview me on what it’s like to be married to a Hotshot as well as my prayer.  We aren’t sure when it’ll be aired, but should be between January and the early summer months.  We will post it on our blog when we have a date.

Thomas started Pre-K, two days a week this year.  We chose to send him to the Ramona Lutheran Christian Day School, which has been a great program for him and he’s enjoying all his new friendships.  He even got to sing in the Christmas program as part of the Shepherds choir.  We’ve also joined the Ramona Christian Family Schools homeschool group, as we’re beginning our homeschool journey.  He has a passion for airplanes, math and loves to be active.  He got a big boy bike for his birthday and he’s having fun riding it with no training wheels.  He’s only 5 but looks like he’s 8.  He is such an amazing BIG brother.  He loves to help feed Hannah and play with her on the floor.  He calls it “his brother time!” We just returned from our annual Knott’s Berry Farm Christmas trip, where we learned that Thomas has a passion for fast rollercoasters!!  He also enjoyed a special visit from Snoopy, who tucked him in bed at the hotel.  While visiting Santa, Thomas was surprised when Santa pulled the letter out of his coat that Thomas had written and mailed to the North Pole.   It was such a magical moment!! He is such a joy to our family and we love being his parents!! 

We are in the process of moving to Descanso, across the street from Jim’s station.  An opportunity came up to rent the government residence which is a little larger home for our growing family.  It also will give us more family time with Jim as he won’t have to commute anymore.  It will be a change of pace for our family and we’ll have new adventures and friends to meet out there.  

We are enjoying our crazy and sometimes busy lives as parents of two little ones. But looking back through the years at all that God has done for us, we are so thankful for this journey we’re on!! Our prayer is that your family will have a wonderful Christmas and a Happy and safe New Year, too!!  Remember, Jesus is the Reason for the Season!!!

                                                Merry Christmas ~

Jim, Trish, Thomas & Hannah

Two Little Blessings

Two little blessings

sent from above,

Twice the smiles

Twice the love

 

God knitted our family together perfectly!!

Can't believe Thomas is already 5 years old!!  He continues to amaze us with his humor, his love and his knowledge of things.  He is going to Pre-K at the Christian School here in town, and boy do we wish we would've enrolled him sooner.   It's a great program that allows him to attend 2 days a week and homeschool the other days.  Although days can be challenging when he acts his age, but for the most part, being his parents is such a joy and we couldn't imagine our lives without him.

Hannah will be 1 next month and wow how fast that year has gone!!  She is such a happy baby and her life story is just another testimony of how great our God is!!  Her life story is her story but we can tell you that babies usually born in her circumstances have a chance for many problems.  Praise God, she is a healthy, happy baby girl who God placed in our family.  When we prayed about "staying on the possible adoption list" for another year (after Thomas's adoption) we never knew this was what God had in store for us.  It just goes to prove, if you trust Him and wait for His perfect timing, he will answer prayers.  Hannah Lynn completes our family, which God knitted together perfectly!!

Updates

Hannah has been changing so much so fast lately.  Today, I felt a new tooth starting and her bottom tooth is already been popping through.  She's really close to crawling, she scoots pretty good all over and she loves to play tummy time!!  She likes to jump in her jumper and laughs a lot at her silly big brother, Thomas.  She smiles a lot and is talking a bunch.  It's all baby babble but it's such a great thing to listen to.  She's growing out of her clothes faster than she wears them.  Her newest favorite discovery is frozen grapes.  She sucks the juice out of them through a baby net holder.  It's really a great invention.  I've put pears, green beans, and now grapes in there and it locks in so she has no way of getting the actual food, just sucks the juice!!!  It keeps her happy for like 20-30 minutes.  She loves her bath time, splashing the water and grabbing the toys.  It's nice that fire season has slowed down a little and Jim is able to be home more to see Hannah grow up.
Thomas has gone from a little toddler to a little boy.  He's really smart, loves airplanes and he is eating us out of house and home.  He's having fun going to big boy school 2 days a week.  We've started homeschooling this year, and this little boy loves math!!  He did 5 pages today in his workbook.

UPDATE:
The court process to finalize the adoption has had many similarities to Thomas's adoption case.  We haven't had any birthmom visits since June, so we see the social worker monthly, just so she can see how Hannah is doing.  Today's court case was to terminate parental rights of the birthparents.  Some appeals were filed, so that didn't happen today.  The outcome will be adoption, but these birthparents keep doing things to stall the process from moving forward.  Our next court case is in 6 weeks, so we will just pray, wait and keep loving this growing little baby girl.  Please continue to pray for this process and I will continue updates when they happen. 

Our new journey of homeschooling

Today was the first OFFICIAL day of being part of our homeschool group.  We have a park day every month where we meet and share important dates, cirricculum and other important stuff.  I am so excited to start this journey and once we get it really moving, it'll be fun bringing Jim on board to help during the winter when his schedule slows down.  Our first field trip will be to Julian to a "behind the scenes" look at how they make the apple pies, then we'll head to the orchard to pick apples and pears!!!  So much fun :)  Thomas is so excited to have so many new friends!!

He's starting his 3rd week of school at the Ramona Christian School, which he attends 2 days a week.  He's enrolled in Pre-K there but we'll be homeschooling at Kindergarten level.  The two full days at school gives him time to learn other things, attend chapel and sing songs.  It gives me 2 days to get things done around the house as well as Hannah's weekly physical therapy appointment.  We'll be busy with that school as well as the homeschool group.  They have family nights, special dinners and events there, too.  So our lives are gonna get busy, but it's just the beginning.

Through this whole experience of adoption (fostering), raising our kids and now being able to teach them, is such a huge blessing in my life.  I'm so grateful for my extremely hard-working husband who provides for us and allows me to be a Stay-At-Home-Mommy.  We are so blessed!!!

We have a court date coming up for our process with Hannah.  We haven't had any visitations since May and so we're hopeful this will help speed this process up.  Please be praying for our upcoming court date (Sept 30th).  She is growing so fast, trying to crawl and loves to babble.  Jim and I think we heard her say "Dada" the other day.  I would love for her to say "Daddy" first as he is such an amazing Daddy!!!  She is loving the new foods we're introducing to her and she's gaining weight like crazy.  She loves her big brother, and can laugh so hard at his crazy humor.

First day of BIG BOY school

Yesterday was Thomas's first day of "big boy" school.  He misses the cutoff for Kindergarten by a few weeks, but we're not going to crush his spirit.  So he's going to Pre-K at the Lutheran Christian School, and he knows it as big boy school.  We are going to homeschool part-time as well as have him attend 2 full days a week at the school.  He is such a smarty pants.  He can do work in his Kindergarten workbooks no problem.  I have a feeling we're raising Doogie Howser #2.

A boy with a little attitude

Had no problem making friends from the beginning

On a side note, Hannah is also growing like a weed right now.  She is really trying to crawl and can roll all over the floor.  She is trying to talk and babbles a lot.  She has started to develop a little personality and it's fun to watch how she's changing each day.
Please be praying for us as the next court date is next week.  Tuesday will be the court hearing to terminate parental rights.  As we know from Thomas's situation and have heard from our SW that this doesn't always happen quickly and is usually appealed by both or one of the birthparents.  That doesn't mean that God can work a miracle and make our judge see the benefits to terminating rights sooner.  All things are possible with God.  I will fill you in next week after court.  (PS- I get to go with the SW to court, so be praying for me, too)

Jim has been gone a lot this summer.  It seemed slow at first, then boom it got busy and it seems like he's been gone more than home the last 3 months.