Visitation with Birth Mom

So yesterday was the supervised visitation with Thomas' BM. Thankfully it didn't go as bad as the visitation with the aunt. It still was akward and he cried. Due to some circumstances, the 2 hour visitation was only 45 minutes. It had nothing to do with Thomas or with us. We just need to pray for this BM. She was very sad and was also crying. She has expressed to the SW that she knows she can't get him back and would like for us to adopt him. She was excited to see how "heavy" he'd gotten. Granted, this is only because he's growing, not getting fat. She gave us permission to trim his hair, but asked for a lock. I understand that and we will honor her request. We have a new SW (I'm sure she's younger than both of us) and she is very sweet. We couldn't ask for a better SW. She shared with us a little more information about the process we are in. We were happy to know that the concurrent part of the adoption process has ended. At this point the chance of reunification with the BM is very very minut. The judge has moved Thomas into an possible adoption case. What does that mean? Well for us, it's very encouraging. The SW has to supervise about 4-5 more visits with BM before the May 3rd court hearing. She is documenting Thomas & BM's behavior together. She also commented (and I'm sure documented) on his reaction with us and how happy he acted in our presence. We showed her the pictures that we were going to give to BM. The pictures show Thomas playing with his ball, playing piano (at Nana's), laughing and feeding himself. She said the BM was very happy to get them, but cried as she looked at them. We need to keep her in our prayers. As a mother, I felt so sad for her.